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But there are cases, when it is important that you do hide it, for example:
- If you are not self-sufficient, and risk being kicked out
- If being found out would put you in any sort of physical danger
- If it could lead to loosing your job (illegal in the UK I think…)
Ways in which you could hide your relationship
- Lock your phone, password protect everything
- Avoid doodling their name on everything
- Swear that you two are just REALLY REALLLY good friends
- Always deny
- Don’t post about anything concerning your relationship on facebook, or any other social network site
- Delete your internet history
- Limit the amount of people that know. Only tell those you can trust to keep it a secret.
- Don’t show PDA
- Control when you are seen together in public
- Don’t talk about her/him more than you would any other friend
- Make sure your siblings don’t find out
- Keep your sex toys in a locked box.. and the lube.
Useful websites:
Other websites:
Video: how to introduce your (lesbian) girlfriend to your parents
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To me, it appears
that if you are in a situation at home, where you would be kicked out and your
safety and comfort could be compromised, it may be best not to be in a relationship.
I know, you lurrrveee him. But hard as it is to accept, we have to remember that
teenage relationships don’t last forever, and you can have all that messing
around, when you leave home (perhaps when you go to university), when you can
find your own lgbt circle to support you and be there for you, if your parents
disown you. Right now it’s too much of a risk. Self-preservation in the short
term is the most important. Be patient.
That being said, I
haven’t been in that situation. I can’t really judge. So I hope that all the
websites I’ve listed are helpful to anyone that really needs it.
eli x
ps, I have guest-slave in mind that I will hopefully be able to blackmail into writing a post about her cousin's experience... so will try to get that posted in the near future
eli x
ps, I have guest-slave in mind that I will hopefully be able to blackmail into writing a post about her cousin's experience... so will try to get that posted in the near future
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