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What Is A Fetish?
I’m sure many of you already have images in their mind as to
what would qualify as a ‘Strange fetish’, but we in homojournal HQ had some
trouble actually coming up with a
fitting and yet satisfying definition. I was sure that I’d read
somewhere that a fetish for something (ie elbows), meant that that poor
fetish-holder NEEDED that something in order for them to get-off. But others
were not satisfied with that definition, and I certainly was not going to go
through all of my collection of erotica from over the years to find that
passage from which I had obtained all my fetish ideologies. It would take me
too long. And I can’t risk asking someone for assistance, for fear of mentally
scaring them for life. How disappointing. Sorry for the vague definition, you
get the picture though, oui?
Is It Ok To Have A Fetish?
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I think it’s perfectly acceptable to have a fetish, and most
fetishes are completely ok, as long as they don’t involve the harm of anyone or
of any animals. If you have fetishes that involve such things, it’s probably a
good idea to go see a psychiatrist.. but there are pleanty of good ways of venting
out.. looking at hentai manga and anime online,
using Japanese sex-dolls – they are very
realistic, reading erotica…
These days, the interwebs is such that it can cater to ANY of your strange fetishes. Just a few clicks of a button will find you a number to call for an appointment to clean a lady's house, naked except for an adult dyper, while she watches you judging and commanding; if that suits your fancy. There are also thousands of online galleries to satisfy you momentarilly, from the very common shoe-fetish, to fetishes for religious and sacred objects (Hierophillia)... and weirder.
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| Apparently it feels good.. |
As long as there is no harm being caused to ANYONE,
or minors, I repeat, it’s probably ok J
How do I tell people?
Now, the slight problem is that others, who are less
understanding, will think you’re weird. Like the example James brought forward
earlier in the week, about the fish lady.. if you have an elbow fetish, or you
really really like trees, when is the right time to tell people?
I have no idea. It’s probably best to not tell people. We Brits don’t really go around talking about our
sex lives (ok, maybe we do… but at least we don’t with family… i.e. grandmas),
and no body really needs to know, unless they’re you’re sex partner.
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Now I’ve lost my ‘normal’ girlfriend, what do I do?
Fetish clubs! You’re most likely to find people who have
similar fetishes, or like to be on the receiving end of them fetishes, in
fetish clubs. You can probably find out locations of them on the internet. In London,
I’ve heard that there is an event twice a month (I think) called “erotica” that
has loads of stools for your sexy needs, and also live demonstrations of Japanese
rope-tieing.
If fetish clubs don’t work, you can try online formns, but
you have to be careful, you don’t know what kind of perverts can be hanging around
there :/// some may be worse than you…
eli x
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- Top 10 fetishes on Askmen.com
- Fetish Advice on the gay pop culture website
- Advice for dating a footfetishist
- 'Whats your sexual fetish' quiz
- Sex! The full Kinkiness quiz
- The ultimate purity exam!
- the marquis fetish magazine website (i think it's in german... but interesting cover pictures!)
- Worldwide fetish news - the fetishistas
- The freedom of fetish podcasts on the website
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