Since a little clarification seems necessary...

As a bisexual male, virginity is very, very complex. I mean, when you say "virginity", what do you mean? Does it only apply to penetrative heterosexual sex? Can it be penetrative homosexual sex? As a bottom, or only as a top? Where do blowjobs come in all of this?

I refuse to make a joke about that last sentence. 

I mean, if you just take "virginity" as the state of not having participated in a given sexual act, then there are at least 12 different virginities a bisexual male can have, if you ignore the somewhat less common/legal ones. I mean, look:

1. Homosexual penetrative sex, top.
2. Homosexual penetrative sex , bottom.
3. Homosexual oral sex, top.
4. Homosexual oral sex, bottom.
5. Homosexual manual sexual stimulation, top.
6. Homosexual manual sexual stimulation, bottom.
7. Heterosexual penetrative sex.
8. Heterosexual oral sex, female -> male.
9. Heterosexual oral sex, male -> female.
10. Heterosexual manual stimulation, female -> male.
11. Heterosexual manual stimulation, male -> female.
12. Usage of sex toys.

You should've seen the list that did include the weird ones.

So which one do you mean, overly-curious friend, when you ask me if I've lost my virginity? Are you asking me if I've given someone a blowjob, or if a girl has given me a handjob, or if I've used anal beads?

...actually, if you're one of my friends, you're probably working from the weird list.

Yours not-quite-so-purely,

James.

I've lost 7/12.