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1) You should always take your own batch of condoms. As many as you have, it's better to be over prepared than under prepared. Don't rely on the dick-owners. Pregnancy (if you haven't already gone through menopause) is no fun. Neither is aids.
2) If people are declining sexual offers from one person, think to yourself "why?". Don't pity fuck, that's how I ended up with crabs. Then I became that one avoided person for a while.
3) In swinging parties, there are going to be loads of naked people. You are going to be naked. You have to learn to be confident with who you are, and not judge other people.
4) Don't over fantasise before hand. Be realistic. If you are a over-weight, middle-aged couple, expect other over-weight, middle-aged people. Don't be disappointed when there are no supermodels with figures like David Beckham's or Pipper's.
5) Don't be jealous of whomever your husband/wife joins. You only have a special emotional bond with your significant other, and the people they (and you) get with at these parties are different. Besides, your partner is less likely to cheat on you and have affairs if you allow him, and give him permission to sleep with others at these parties, whilst you do the same. You both have to be mutually trusting for the swinging life to work for you. Or else it will only disappoint, and end leaving a bitter taste in your mouth.
6) Don't partner up with the same person repeatedly. Mix it up a little, go with others, have threesomes and whatever-many-somes. It makes things much more interesting, as well as preventing jealousy and things getting messy.
7) Be nice to the host, RSVP as soon as you can, and take gifts for the host. They are the ones opening up their homes, for you to enjoy, and they are likely to be cleaning up your bodily fluids off the sofa the next morning. If you are a pleasent guest, you are more likely to be invited back.
8) Don't take your children with you.
shall post up my "day in the life of a swinger" sometime later.. I have to go off to work..
eli (alsos, the "my experiences" part is fictional.. and so is my "day in the life" bit.. just to let you know.. Am not a swinger... )
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